There are countless sites, covering the topic of "Cheap sex in Thailand" - Thailand's cheapest ladies for sex - Inexpensive, cheap sex in Thailand. Where do I find cheap sex in Thailand? So, if this is your question, read on:-
Firstly there is the bar fine. A bar fine is the price you pay the bar, for taking a lady away from the establishment. Even if the particular young lady you are talking to, doesn’t work at that bar – (a freelancer), you will still have to pay the bar fine. Beer bars, typically charge between 300 – 400Baht but, this may be more if the girl/lady is especially good looking in this case, she will be in high demand, especially if she’s young, or dare I say it “farm fresh” (a term used to express she`s new to the beer bar scene)! You must also pay the bar fine for a gogo dancer too, but remember these Koyotee dancers are always going to be more expensive than the average bar girl. So a bar fine of 500 - 1000 Baht is not uncommon, but always ensure you know exactly what you`re paying for. “Make sure that your bar fine allows you to take the lady out all night” and that she doesn’t have to be back “at work” in a few hours. Your fine should secure her company until at least 3 PM the following day. Also remember that although it is taken for granted by most men in Pattaya, paying a bar fine doesn`t include the price of sex. You are only paying for taking her from her place of work, her company and companionship. The price you pay her for having sex, is completely different! It is also worth remembering that prostitution is illegal in Thailand.
You can of course, take some one short time, but if short time is you thing then, it may well pay you to choose a “palm tree” prostitute from beach road – where there`s no bar fine!
I have seen it all too often, men drinking at a bar, haggling away with the mama san for a reduction in the bar fine. Don’t do it! You have obviously impressed the girl with your whit, charm and rugged good looks. You’ve bought her a drink or two to demonstrate you affluence, and you have made up your mind to take the lady out. Picture the scene, she takes her hand bag, and is saying good bye to her friends, and you start embarrassing both of you, by trying to get 50 Baht knocked of the bar fine? You want to eat “take away” with out paying for it. Forget it! The bar fine is not negotiable, so just pay it! No one likes to loose face in Thailand, so don`t get labeled as a "cheap Charlie"!
Now, before even considering paying the bar fine, you will want to know how much money she will want from you for providing "her additional services" - sex.! This price is not fixed. Like everything you buy in Pattaya, you should not be scared of asking the price. Equally, do not be afraid of haggling for a better price too - (excluding - the bar fine)! Young, slim, old, older, athletic, fancily dressed, wild or demur, whoever takes your fancy, your choice of bar girl is “up to you” -. That also goes for the price you pay.. “Up to you”
So how much should you pay the lady? There is no "set" price guide, or price list!
In Pattaya, unfortunately, you learn from the school of hard knocks, and your own experiences. We have all paid the price for our education but only here, at Pattayabound, your`e getting a little bit for free! If you're happy with the amount you`re been asked for, and you are happy to pay it then all`s well. Yes, the price the “lady” asks for sex, may vary from time to time, But, on the “whole” the price for cheap sex in Pattaya has remained pretty much inflation proof with no unexpected or unwanted “rises” in the last 10 years or so.
My top tip, is you should have as much fun with your lady as possible. Talk, laugh and play. Keep the conversations short and simple; never embarrass her, especially by her lack of English. Make her want you! If you can do this, then whatever time you spend together, and whatever price you pay, you will have an even greater time. Also remember, you are in “lust” - not in love. Keep your relationship simple, ie don`t swap phone numbers etc, this is the best way to go! The term ”Butterfly” works both ways. It should mean that both of you are allowed to hop in and out of relation ships, on a daily basis. This way no one looses face when its time to move on, and should you turn up at your favorite place of worship to find your lady is “staying in loom tonight” (Bar fined earlier) there is no problem. This way you may even achieve the holy grail of bar girl time - free sex?
Good, although brief summary. Just wanted to add that I have been going out to Pattay on and off for about 15 years - back then the bar fine was 200 baht and 500 baht for the girl - even cheaper considering the exchange rate was 78 baht to 1 GBP! I agree that it has remained the same in about the last 10 years. The bar fine went up during that time to 300 baht (never encoutered higher). Most girls want 1000 baht unless they really fancy themselves as way above average and/or they don't like the look of you! I would move on as I have always found great and really raunchy lookers who only want the standard rate. Treat them with genuine respect like a lady not a possession and you will get far more out of you "mini-relationship". If you pick one from a go-go bar, you will pay twice these amounts. Occasionally you may be unlucky and get a (probably) new girl who lies there like a "starfish". Just unlucky - be kind - if you are patient she will change - most guys move on the next day. Remember, nearly all the girls want to be friendly and really enjoy some fun/ laughs, before/ during/ after, but not many will do all things you may want. So gently make your moves, just as you would on a first night stand at home!
ReplyDeleteWise words Bob.. So many guy's going to Pattaya for sex treat the girls like pieces of meat and walk about with an air of supremacy. They treat the poor girls like objects of desire and nothing more. You are dead right, the more generous you are with the cuddles, kisses and laughter the better the s-experience on the hole? Thank you for taking time to comment.
Delete1000 baht is about right for a beer bar girl and if she's good I'm happy to give her more, I walked into Lucifers disco the other night and picked up this really cute and very sweet girl. I gave her 1500 baht. In my experience the go go girls are more expensive for sure but as they've been dancing all night they're tired so can be lame in bed. The point made about treating them nice is really important, why wouldn't you? I've seen far too many jack the lad tossers treat the locals like dirt, it infuriates me!! The Thais respect us Brits lets keep it that way. Although I'm a Brit I'm ethnically Indian which wasn't a problem until a few years ago until a few years ago I noticed I was kind of being ignored!
ReplyDeleteI found out that native Indians have come to Thailand, one of them will pick up a girl and haggle down as far as possible then take her back to the room and then a bunch of them will effectielvely gang rape her! These guys should be shot!
Unfortunately the last para is true! sad but true. These idiots will only ruin it for themselves
DeleteAnyone who does it ,whether he is a Brit or an Indian, Should be punished irrespective of his nationality.India has a very large population.Many good Indians also visit Thailand.No one notices them.But some rare bad incidents come to notice.
ReplyDeleteRape is a vile act carried out by cowards! I agree they should be punished to the maximum the law permits. I also agree that there bad people can be found in any nationality and that bad news sells more papers than good, therefore, at times it can seem that more bad things happen in the world than good. It's a shame. Thank you for your comment.
DeleteWe need to change the ideas of Farangs when it comes to shots vs time. What I'm saying is a lot of these girls now think they are hot shit charging more than there western counterparts back in their home country. Farangs need to listen up. When "hiring" a bar girl or freelancer, you must clarify you are paying for her time and not "shots". If everybody did this, the Thai women would realize they can no longer take us for a ride and do a runner after you blow after one time. If its short time or long time....that's what your paying for....her TIME, not shots. Spread the word my brothers.
ReplyDeletehttp://pattayabound.blogspot.co.uk/2013/03/what-does-long-time-sex-in-pattaya-mean.html I hope this goes some way into explaining the hazards of not knowing the difference between the two, but in truth the best way to learn, is to keep going back and learning through your own personal experience. Thank you for your comment
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